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One of the reasons I adore my husband is his appreciation. One of the biggest disappointments in parenting is the complete lack of gratitude or appreciation, but that's another post.

DH is always delightfully happy, surprised, and appreciative when I do even the most mundane of chores! If I make dinner (which really I do quite often) he always thanks me and makes a fuss over how wonderful it is. Unless it's awful, then we laugh about it. If he sees I have done the laundry, or some project at the office, he gets excited and recognizes my efforts.

Today I spent a bunch of time cleaning off the top of his chest of drawers. It was a disaster of weeks of emptied pockets. Yuck. The kids knew I had been working on it because it took so long. When he got home I whispered to the children to guess how long it would take him to notice. My son didn't think he would notice at all. Within 30 seconds of him walking in the bedroom we hear a booming WOW! Then he proceeded to thank me and he went on and on about how great it looked and how he would try to keep it clean.

He's just so damn cute about it with the enthusiasm. It could be an evil plot to get me to do more, but if so it has worked for almost 19 years.

What a sweety.

Date: 2007-01-07 08:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pix-kristin.livejournal.com
Oh, that's SO wonderful! I love that kind of affirmation and have really been in a relationship where I got it. Most of the people I've fallen in love with either don't notice or don't think to articulate their appreciation. Go your DH!

Date: 2007-01-07 08:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fatoudust.livejournal.com
Aww. Yay, DH! The SO makes an effort to do this too. Really makes a difference. Not that I wouldn't do the necessary chores, just that it's so much easier when I know it's appreciated. Which reminds me. I'd better go put away the laundry.

Date: 2007-01-07 08:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tortoiseshell.livejournal.com
He's always been this way. Appreciative and vocal about it. It is a most endearing quality. Helps to balance the snoring!

Date: 2007-01-07 11:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] serenada.livejournal.com
You rock.

That doesn't have anything in particular to do with this entry--I just wanted to say it. You are a wonderful warm woman. You seem like a great mother and a great wife, and just plain great.

You rock.

Date: 2007-01-07 11:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tortoiseshell.livejournal.com
Thank you so much for your beautiful words. It means so very much to me that you would say this. I spend much of my time feeling barely adequate as a wife and mother, overwhelming this life is. Thank you for lifting my spirts in such a wonderful way.

Date: 2007-01-08 12:03 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] fishsanwitt
LOL! It *could* be an evil plot, but it doesn't sound like that to me :)

Date: 2007-01-08 01:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sail-aweigh.livejournal.com
It could be an evil plot, but I just think he's a wonderful, kindhearted, thoughtful man. You wouldn't happen to have another one just like him lying around would you?

Date: 2007-01-08 02:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] charlotte-buff.livejournal.com
Good DH. Adorable *and* smart! Hard to find. I'm so glad he's deserving and appreciative of all you do.

Date: 2007-01-08 09:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] golden-aurelia.livejournal.com
One of my favorite things about meeting the two of you at the LA F2F was getting to see his undisguised, absolute adoration of you. And really, who deserves that more than you?

You just may be the cutest couple I've ever seen.
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